So I did nothing today. I had plans to do house work for a little bit of pocket change, but turned into a sobby mess for absolutely no reason, so my mom said to take the day to be emo.
But I really want to thank Nessa for being my friend.
I needed someone yesterday to fill in for me with Blogathon, so I could work out this crap with Mason. She came over and not only did it, but did it for two to three hours longer than either of us expected her to, with little to no complaint.
When I came home, miserable and choking back tears, she accepted that I needed the time to pull myself together before I could say what happened, and when I did tell her the details, she minimally expressed disappointment in him but went on to only talk me up about how much better I could do and what a hot commodity I am. It's the best for me way a friend has ever reacted to my break-up woes, since people I've considered close in the past maintained a "what the fuck ever" stance on the end of my relationships (and my heartbreaks, necessary for the situation or not) except for the one occasion in which an ex brought his girlfriend to my house within a month of our split and nearly got head from her. Then it was a "kick-his-ass-he-hurt-Mel" fest.
Oddly now that I think about it, that's how I met Mason the first time.
This is about Nessa though! And even though I'm not taking her advice on this one, I appreciate her caring enough and seeing me in a good enough light that she could honestly talk me up enough to even consider dating right away (and yes, I did consider it for a good part of last night).
Point is, she's been a really good friend to me in the time I've been "besties" with her, and I think before the last 48 hours I had forgotten that, cos so much has been going on with her and her life that her patience runs a little dry at times. But, to point, thank you so much Nessa for being good to me and in close range when I need you (and putting up with me when I need to be put up with)! <3
Sunday, July 29, 2007
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Everyone should have at least one friend like Nessa.
Everyone should though. Maybe I should clone her and sell her clones on the internet ... :D
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